The Giftedness Approach to Leadership
An executive team meeting had devolved into the familiar pattern. The Chief Financial Officer (CFO) pushed for more detailed financial projections. The Chief Financial Officer (COO) insisted on faster execution timelines. The Chief Strategy Officer (CSO) advocated for deeper market analysis before any decisions. Each leader was competent, experienced, and committed to the organization’s success. Yet their collaboration generated more friction than forward movement.
As this team struggles, the actual problem becomes evident. It wasn’t a personality clash or a communication failure. It was a misalignment of giftedness that no team-building exercise or communication training could fix. Three highly capable leaders fought because they were each working from their natural strengths while expecting others to approach problems the same way.
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This scenario happens daily in organizations led by evangelical executives and leaders. We hire based on skills and experience, assign roles according to organizational charts and gaps, and then wonder why talented people create dysfunctional teams. Despite investments in leadership development, personality assessments, and conflict-resolution training, we miss the core issue: we’re trying to boost performance without understanding how God truly designed each person to operate.
Building teams that thrive requires a fundamentally different approach. One that starts not with job descriptions and competency models, but with recognizing and nurturing the unique giftedness patterns God has woven into each team member and finding organizational alignment.
The Biblical Foundation for Team Giftedness
Paul’s teaching in Romans 12:4-8 provides the theological framework for giftedness-based team leadership:
“For as in one body we have many members, and the members do not all have the same function, so we, though many, are one body in Christ, and individually members one of another. Having gifts that differ according to the grace given to us, let us use them: if prophecy, in proportion to our faith; if service, in our serving; the one who teaches, in his teaching; the one who exhorts, in his exhortation; the one who contributes, in generosity; the one who leads, with zeal; the one who does acts of mercy, with cheerfulness.”
Paul uses the metaphor of a body (σῶμα, sōma) to describe how diverse members function together. Notice several critical principles:
Designed Diversity: “Members do not all have the same function” (πράξις, praxis). God intentionally created different capacities for different contributions. Uniformity isn’t the goal; coordinated diversity is.
Interdependence: “Individually members one of another” (ἀλλήλων, allēlōn). Each member’s function depends on and serves the others. Your giftedness isn’t just for your benefit but for the flourishing of the whole team.
Grace-Based Distinction: “Gifts that differ according to the grace given to us” (χάρισμα κατὰ τὴν χάριν, charisma kata tēn charin). These differences come from God’s gracious distribution, not personal achievement. This should produce humility, not competition.
Functional Deployment: Each gift is meant to be used in its specific expression. The one who serves should serve, not teach. The one who leads should lead, not perform acts of mercy. Excellence comes from alignment, not from everyone doing everything.
While Paul specifically talks about spiritual gifts in the church, the core principle applies to all types of talent and ability. Just as the church works best when each member acts in their Spirit-given role, organizational teams succeed when everyone contributes within their God-designed giftings.
The Cost of Giftedness Misalignment in Teams
Before exploring how to build giftedness-aligned teams, we need to understand the cost of misalignment. Most organizational dysfunction arises not from bad people or bad intentions, but from role-design mismatches.
High Performance, Low Satisfaction
Your team might be seeing results while feeling exhausted inside. When capable individuals work beyond their natural strengths, they can often succeed with just competence and a strong work ethic. Performance metrics seem fine. Projects get completed. However, the emotional cost is high.
I’ve coached operations leaders who excelled at process optimization but were energized by developing people and shaping culture. Their teams met targets, but everyone involved felt increasingly exhausted. The work got done, but at an unsustainable expense to both the leader and the team members, who never received the support they needed.

Chronic Conflict Patterns
Much of what we label “personality conflict” is actually giftedness collision. The strategically gifted leader who needs time to analyze becomes frustrated with the operationally gifted team member who wants immediate action. The relationally gifted member, who processes through conversation, conflicts with the analytically gifted member, who needs quiet reflection time.
These aren’t character flaws to be fixed through conflict-resolution training. They’re different designs trying to work together without understanding or honoring each other’s giftedness patterns. When you try to resolve giftedness collision through personality management, you’re treating symptoms while ignoring the root cause.
Talent Drain and Turnover
Your best people leave not because they lack commitment but because they lack alignment. They join your organization attracted by the opportunity but stay (or leave) depending on whether their work matches their giftedness.
Exit interviews rarely reveal the true issue. People often cite “better opportunities” or “career growth,” but the real reason is simpler: they are exhausted from working outside their natural strengths. You lose talent not because you failed to develop them, but because you failed to assign them roles aligned with how God wired them.
Witness Weakness
For evangelical leaders, mismatched giftedness causes a witness issue. When your team culture accepts exhaustion, friction, and high turnover, what gospel are you demonstrating? If following Christ at work results in the same problems as secular organizations, what makes Kingdom leadership stand out?
Your non-believing team members observe whether you create environments where people truly thrive or just get by. Teams aligned with giftedness not only perform better, but also achieve superior results. They demonstrate what’s possible when leadership recognizes how God designed people to function.
Identifying Giftedness Patterns in Team Members
Building giftedness-aligned teams begins with learning how to recognize the signs of how God created each person. This isn’t about formal assessments (though those help), but about developing discernment as a leader.
Watch for Energy Patterns
Pay attention to which assignments energize versus drain your team members. When someone consistently volunteers for certain types of projects, that indicates a talent or strength. When someone consistently delegates or delays specific tasks despite being capable of doing them, that also signals a gift or strength.
Consider a direct report who’s technically skilled at data analysis but consistently finds reasons to involve others in analytical work. A leader might initially view this as avoiding responsibility. But watch more carefully: does this person come alive when translating complex data into compelling narratives for stakeholders? Their giftedness might not be analysis but communication and influence. Restructuring their role to emphasize stakeholder engagement while pairing them with an analytically gifted team member could allow both to flourish.
Listen for Recurring Themes
People talk about what interests them. Listen for the recurring subjects your team members gravitate toward in conversations, what problems they notice first, what solutions they naturally suggest.
The team member who constantly asks “how will this impact our people?” probably has a gift for people development. The person who quickly detects process inefficiencies likely has a talent for systems optimization. The one who questions strategic assumptions might have a gift for strategic thinking. These aren’t random preferences; they reveal aspects of divine design.
Observe Problem-Solving Approaches
How does each team member naturally handle challenges? Some jump right into action. Others step back to analyze before acting. Some look for collaborative input. Others prefer to work through problems alone first.
These different approaches aren’t better or worse; they’re different patterns of giftedness expressing themselves. The action-oriented approach may signal implementation giftedness. The analytical retreat might indicate strategic or research giftedness. The collaborative seeker could represent facilitation or consensus-building giftedness.
Notice Excellence Patterns
Where does each person deliver disproportionate results relative to their effort or experience? This often reveals their giftedness. When someone makes something difficult look easy, they’re probably working within their giftedness. When someone makes something that should be straightforward feel laborious, they’re likely operating outside of it.

Ask Discovery Questions
Rather than assuming you know what energizes your team members, ask them:
- “When do you lose track of time at work?”
- “What type of work leaves you feeling energized rather than drained?”
- “If you could restructure your role, what would you do more of and less of?”
- “What problems do you find yourself naturally drawn to solve?”
- “What were you doing the last time you felt deeply satisfied by your contribution?”
These questions surface giftedness patterns far more effectively than traditional performance reviews focused on metrics and objectives.
Restructuring Roles Around Giftedness
Discovering your team’s giftedness patterns is only valuable if you’re willing to restructure work accordingly. This requires moving beyond rigid job descriptions to fluid role design.
Start with Core Functions, Not Job Titles
Every organizational role involves multiple functions. A marketing director might oversee strategy, team development, stakeholder communication, budget management, and creative direction. Rarely does one person’s talents perfectly match all these functions.
Identify the essential functions needed for your team’s mission. Then align those functions with team members’ strengths instead of requiring individuals to perform all tasks within their job descriptions.
Enable Functional Trading
Allow team members to exchange functions across traditional role boundaries. Your operations manager, who’s skilled in people development, might take on mentoring responsibilities usually assigned to HR. Your strategy lead, who’s energized by process design, might handle operational planning typically owned by operations.
This requires releasing territorial thinking about roles. Functions belong to the team’s mission, not to individual job titles. When you prioritize giftedness alignment over organizational chart neatness, both performance and satisfaction significantly improve.
Create Complementary Partnerships
Pair team members whose giftedness patterns complement each other. The strategically gifted leader who excels at long-term planning pairs well with the operationally gifted leader who excels at execution. The analytically gifted team member who loves deep research pairs well with the communication-gifted member who translates findings for stakeholders.
These partnerships utilize diverse talents for better results while allowing each person to operate within their strengths. The focus is on both parties understanding and appreciating each other’s contributions instead of one person making up for the other’s weaknesses.
Restructure Gradually
You can’t overhaul your entire team structure overnight. Begin with one or two strategic adjustments where misalignment of giftedness causes clear problems. As you see positive results, expand the approach.
I worked with a technology team where the technical architect was overwhelmed by client-facing work despite being highly skilled technically but tired from constant client interaction. We restructured by pairing him with a client relationship manager whose strength was stakeholder engagement. Technical quality improved because the architect could concentrate on design. Client satisfaction increased because someone naturally talented in relationship management handled those interactions. Both team members reported higher satisfaction despite no change in compensation or title.
Leading Through Giftedness Conversations
The most powerful tool for building giftedness-aligned teams is regular, intentional conversation about how God designed each person to function.
Make It Ongoing, Not Annual
Don’t limit giftedness conversations to annual reviews. Build them into your regular one-on-one meetings. Ask about energy levels, satisfaction with current assignments, and interest in different types of work. These conversations signal that you care about alignment, not just performance.
Frame It Theologically
For teams that share your faith, clearly link giftedness to stewardship. “God designed you with specific capacities. Part of my role as your leader is helping you discover and use those capacities for Kingdom impact through your work. Let’s discuss where you’re feeling alignment and where you might be functioning outside your design.”
This elevates the conversation from managing preferences to guiding divine design. It opens space to discuss fulfillment and calling, not just metrics and objectives.
Address Misalignment Compassionately
When you see someone working outside their strengths, approach the conversation with kindness and understanding, not criticism. “I’ve noticed this type of work seems to drain rather than energize you. That’s not a performance issue; it might be a design-role mismatch. Let’s explore whether we can restructure your responsibilities to better fit how you’re wired.”
This approach removes shame linked to struggling with work that doesn’t align with your gifts. It promotes psychological safety and compassion, helping you recognize misalignment instead of hiding from it. This exemplifies servant leadership.
Develop Individual Giftedness Plans
Work with each team member to develop a simple plan for moving toward better giftedness alignment. This doesn’t mean everyone gets their ideal role right away, but it does mean everyone has a path toward greater alignment.
The plan might include:
- Functions to emphasize (aligned with giftedness)
- Functions to reduce or delegate (misaligned with giftedness)
- Skills to develop (supporting giftedness deployment)
- Potential future roles (better alignment opportunities)
- Timeline for adjustments (realistic progression)
This shows you’re committed to guiding their design, not merely focusing on their performance. This is leadership versus management, respectfully.
The ROI of Giftedness-Aligned Teams
Building teams around giftedness isn’t just theologically sound; it’s a smart organizational move. The return on investment shows up in multiple areas.

Performance Improvement
When people operate within their giftedness, they produce higher-quality work with less effort. The strategic thinker who spends 80% of their time on strategy outperforms the equally capable person who allocates only 20% to strategy because of role misalignment.
Aligning giftedness not only boosts individual results but also enhances team performance. When each member leverages their strengths and appreciates others’ contributions, the team achieves more with less internal conflict.
Retention and Attraction
In a competitive talent market, work environments aligned with giftedness become a key differentiator. Your top employees stay longer because their work energizes rather than drains them. Word spreads, attracting talent looking for environments where they can thrive instead of just survive.
The cost of turnover—including recruiting, onboarding, productivity loss, and knowledge transfer—far exceeds the investment in understanding and organizing around giftedness. Leaders who neglect giftedness alignment consistently face the consequences through ongoing turnover.
Innovation and Initiative
When people work within their strengths, they contribute extra effort and creative energy. They don’t just finish assigned tasks; they spot opportunities, suggest solutions, and lead initiatives that match their talents.
The strategically talented team member doesn’t just carry out the current plan; they identify emerging threats and opportunities. The operationally talented member doesn’t simply follow processes; they consistently seek to improve them. This discretionary contribution only appears when work aligns with their talents.
Cultural Transformation
Giftedness-based leadership creates cultural ripple effects. When team members feel valued for their unique talents instead of being compared to a standard, they tend to show that same respect to others. Competition diminishes. Collaboration grows. Silos dissolve as people recognize their interconnectedness.
The team that learns to function as a body, with each member respecting others’ different roles, models Kingdom culture in the workplace. This serves as a testimony to both believing and non-believing colleagues.
Leader Development
As you organize your team around giftedness, you cultivate future leaders who carry this mindset into their own areas of influence. The team member who experiences being guided according to their design becomes a leader who guides others according to their designs.
This expands your Kingdom impact beyond your immediate team. You’re not just creating one functional team; you’re developing leaders who will build giftedness-aligned teams throughout the organization and beyond.
Creating Organizational Space for Giftedness Discovery
While you can start applying giftedness principles right away through your leadership style, lasting change needs organizational backing.
Introduce Giftedness Assessment as Professional Development
Present formal giftedness assessment as a professional development opportunity rather than a performance review tool. Offer it to interested team members as a benefit that helps them understand their strengths and career paths.
Partner with certified giftedness coaches (through organizations like The Giftedness Center) to conduct formal assessments. The investment (usually 8-12 hours per person over several weeks) results in clarity, alignment, and retention that greatly outweigh the cost.
Build Giftedness Language into Team Culture
Begin incorporating giftedness terminology in team meetings, project assignments, and planning discussions. When assigning tasks, explicitly consider where giftedness fits: “This project requires deep analytical work. Who’s energized by that type of thinking?” or “We need someone who’s gifted in stakeholder facilitation for this initiative.”
This makes discussing giftedness a valid factor in work assignment, not just skills and availability.
Model Giftedness-Based Decision Making
Share your personal journey of discovering your gifts. Describe the decisions you’ve made to realign your work with your strengths. Acknowledge when you’re operating outside your giftedness and explain how you’re addressing it.
Leaders who show vulnerability about their own giftedness journey create permission for team members to be honest about theirs. This openness breaks down the pretense that everyone should be equally capable at everything.
Advocate for Structural Changes
As senior leaders, we can implement strategic and structural changes that drive transformation. If you lack the authority to do so, work with HR and senior leadership to revise policies and systems that assume everyone fits a single template. Challenge performance evaluation standards that ignore different patterns of giftedness. Propose pilot programs to test role design based on giftedness.
You might not have the authority to change organizational systems right away, but you can influence them through proven results. As your giftedness-aligned team outperforms and retains talent better than comparison teams, you build credibility to advocate for larger changes.
Addressing Common Objections
Leaders often resist giftedness-based team building for understandable reasons. Let’s address the most common objections.
“We can’t afford to let everyone do only what they enjoy.”
This misunderstands giftedness. It’s not about avoiding all difficult or unpleasant work. It’s about designing roles so the core functions match giftedness patterns, even when specific tasks within those functions are hard.
The strategically talented leader might find certain analytical tasks dull, but the overall strategic role still energizes them. The people-development-oriented leader might struggle with difficult personnel conversations, but the role of developing people aligns with their natural abilities.
Also, when people work mainly within their strengths, they have more resilience for tasks outside of them. The issue isn’t occasional misalignment; it’s ongoing misalignment that leads to burnout.
“Not everyone can have their ideal role.”
Agreed. But everyone can work towards better alignment over time. The question isn’t whether you can instantly reorganize every role perfectly. It’s whether you’re intentionally guiding people toward roles that better match their gifts.
Small changes can produce big results. Transferring 20% of someone’s duties to match their strengths can greatly boost both satisfaction and performance, even if 80% stays the same.
“This seems like too much work.”
Initially, yes. Learning to recognize giftedness patterns, having discovery conversations, and restructuring work takes effort. But compare that effort to the ongoing cost of misalignment: chronic conflict, repeated turnover, underperformance, and damaged credibility.
The initial investment in giftedness-based leadership yields continued benefits. Teams become self-improving as members learn to recognize and respect each other’s designs.
“What if someone’s giftedness doesn’t fit any role we need?”
This does happen, and it calls for honest conversations. Sometimes, the most loving thing is helping someone realize they’re in the wrong environment for their giftedness to grow. This isn’t failure; it’s stewardship.
Help them identify where their giftedness aligns best, support their transition, and preserve the relationship. You’ve served them well by helping them uncover their design, even if deployment occurs elsewhere.
The Witness of Flourishing Teams
Beyond performance and retention benefits, giftedness-aligned teams create powerful witness in your organization.
Observable Difference
When your team consistently shows lower conflict, higher satisfaction, and better results than other teams, people take notice. Colleagues ask what you’re doing differently. This naturally opens up opportunities to discuss how honoring God’s design in people can transform team dynamics.
You don’t need to preach. Your team’s success prompts questions that naturally lead to gospel conversations in context.
Countercultural Values
Most organizations view people as interchangeable resources to maximize productivity. Giftedness-based leadership sees people as unique creations to be cared for according to divine design.
This countercultural approach shines. It shows Kingdom values in action, not just in theory. Your team becomes a living example of what’s possible when leadership is rooted in biblical anthropology.
Multiplication Potential
Team members who are led based on their giftedness often seek to understand their design more thoroughly. This naturally provides opportunities to discuss Ephesians 2:10 theology, the difference between giftedness and spiritual gifts, and God’s intentional design work.
Some may start formal giftedness discovery, while others might explore faith more deeply, questioning what influences their leadership style. Your witness becomes natural, arising from how you lead rather than what you say.
Moving Forward: Your Next Steps
Building giftedness-aligned teams begins with specific actions, not just good intentions.
This Week:
- Identify one team member whose work-design misalignment you suspect. Schedule a giftedness conversation using the discovery questions outlined earlier.
- Review your own role. What functions drain you that might align with someone else’s giftedness? What functions energize you that you should increase?
- In your next team meeting, explicitly acknowledge that different people approach problems differently by design, and that this diversity strengthens the team.
This Month:
- Map the core functions required across your team. Identify where functions might be reallocated to better align with giftedness patterns.
- Propose one structural adjustment (role trade, partnership, or responsibility shift) based on giftedness alignment.
- Research giftedness assessment resources. Consider investing in formal assessments for yourself and interested team members.
This Quarter:
- Develop individual giftedness plans with each direct report, outlining trajectory toward better alignment.
- Measure results from your initial adjustments. Track both performance metrics and satisfaction indicators.
- Share your approach with peer leaders. As you see results, advocate for giftedness-based team building more broadly.
Conclusion: From Performance to Flourishing
When executive teams experience a giftedness collision like the scenario I described, transformation becomes possible through intentional restructuring. Imagine the CFO who pushes for detailed projections but focuses instead on long-term financial strategy, paired with an operations analyst who loves building models. The COO who demands faster execution could lead implementation, freed from strategic analysis that drains him. The CSO who advocates for deeper analysis might focus on market intelligence and opportunity identification.
Same people. Same organizational goals. Potentially very different team dynamics. Meetings could create constructive tension between complementary perspectives rather than destructive conflict between opposing approaches.
This is what becomes possible when you shift from optimizing performance to guiding design. Your focus moves from extracting maximum output to creating environments where people thrive by operating within their God-given capacities.
Romans 12’s body metaphor isn’t just theology; it’s practical leadership wisdom. When each member functions according to their design, when diversity is coordinated rather than homogenized, and when interdependence is celebrated rather than competed against, teams thrive.
The question isn’t whether your team members have gifts. God designed each of them with specific abilities for particular contributions. The real question is whether you’ll put in the effort to identify those talents and adapt work accordingly.
Building teams that thrive involves seeing people the way God sees them: not as interchangeable resources but as unique creations to be stewarded. It requires moving beyond job descriptions to recognize giftedness patterns. It also means honoring diverse contributions instead of expecting uniform approaches.
This is leadership as stewardship. Not just managing organizational resources, but caring for the people God created and placed in your care. When you lead this way, your team doesn’t just perform better—they thrive. And their thriving becomes a testimony to Kingdom values lived out in everyday organizational life.
Are you ready to build a team that flourishes?
Series Overview:
- Article 1: Why Talented Executives Still Burn Out: The Giftedness Gap
Exploring the disconnect between what you can do and what you were created to do, and why competence without alignment leads to depletion. - Article 2: From Career Success to Kingdom Impact: Aligning Work with Divine Design
How giftedness discovery reveals not just what you can do, but what you were created to do—transforming both satisfaction and witness. - Article 3: Building Teams That Flourish: The Giftedness Approach to Leadership
When you understand your team’s giftedness, you stop forcing square pegs into round holes and start creating environments where people naturally excel.
Let this series help you discover how God designed you to lead, so your work reflects faithful stewardship, your witness becomes organic, and your kingdom impact amplifies through alignment with divine purpose.


